Wednesday, September 28, 2005

Planning or fantasizing?

Sometimes, when you are planning something (it could be a trip out or maybe just a simple dinner), and you really put your heart into it. Is it truly planning or fantasizing?

Getting the settings right, the perfect place to go to, which clothes to wear, what to say and do. This is planning right? Or is it just fantasizing? Cos nothing has ever worked out right for me. Haha.. when I plan a beautiful day out, it never seems to feel that way. Yes, it might be enjoyable but it's never the same as what I had envisioned. Did my expectations spoil my day?

I have a quirk. I compare my fantasies to reality. When I can't have something or maybe even someone. I fantasize about those hard-to-get gadgets, unrealised relationships, and so on. I do this throughout the day. So that's why I'm dreamy at times. Then when something in real life comes along, and it sort of mirrors my fantasies, I get nervous but easily disappointed too.

I compare my dreams to reality. And that's where everything goes wrong. Beautiful dreams never get ugly. Reality does. I can plan and fantasize all day, but on that day, it becomes ordinary when compared to my fantasy.

I feel compelled to act out my dreams. Haha.. ya it's true. On those few dates out, I've always fantasized and acted it out in my mind long before the date happened. But I'm often disappointed maybe cos I'm really stressed out. I try to keep reality parallel to my dreams. It just doesn't work. Haha I have no idea what I'm writing about now. Getting nowhere..
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Anonymous said...

How to Make Your Dreams Come True

Of course not all dreams are pleasant and making them come true can be worse than being trapped inside a cosole horror game.

But some dreams are produced by our deeper minds and are our inner-most desires, often disguised in some strange way.

However, there is another kind of dream and that is the kind we are consciously aware of and we have them during the daylight hourse and are often just fleeting thoughts.

You know the kind. "I wish I was on a world cruise enjoying myself rather than being stuck here in the factory or behind a desk." Yes, that's also a dream because it has it is a desire that has sirfaced into our conscious minds and is something we wish for at an unconscious level.

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Thank you for reading this,

Robert Shields

6:57 AM, November 29, 2005

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